Are you a humanist?
Many ideologues would no doubt disagree, but I still think that the best, most meaningful starting place for answering that question is with the primary, most widely-used and widely-understood definition displayed in Webster's Encyclopedic, which describes a humanist as "a person having a strong interest in and concern for human welfare, values and dignity."
I DO think that the only weakness in that definition is that the phrase "strong interest" is too vague. I think it would be more precise to use "predominate” interest in, or the even more definitive "primary” passion for and/or even an expressed “commitment” to…human welfare, values and dignity. In my mind, a self-identity as a humanist ought to evoke a sense that the welfare and happiness of human beings (including self, family, neighbors, co-workers, casual acquaintances and fellow citizens of one's country and planet) is THE priority focus of our living and working. The implications of that deliberate focus are the heart of human ethical responsibilities.
For that reason, I am an "ethical humanist", in that i think that ethical responsibility is intrinsic to human nature and human society---in that our higher intelligence and warm emotions, and the inherent interdependence of our existence TOGETHER, are the natural, innate foundations of why we should care about each other, and treat each other with compassion and dignity. I am an ethical humanist, as opposed to being a religious humanist, Christian humanist, Catholic humanist, Hindu humanist, Buddhist humanist, Jewish humanist, Muslim humanist, Mormon humanist, New-Age humanist, "higher power" humanist, "spiritual but not religious"-humanist, "i believe in god but mainly in the Golden Rule"-humanist.....OR even "secular" humanist, or "freethought" humanist, or atheist humanist. It's my hope that sometime in this century or the next, more and more people will learn to drop, or at least minimize the importance of, the intrinsically divisive labels that so many billions wear much too ideologically and unnecessarily. In the most important sense, "humanism" is one (possibly the best and only) philosophy which could be a truly effective UNIFYING and conciliatory force and movement among human beings and in human society. A primary commitment to human welfare and happiness. THAT is the humanism that i embraced about nine years ago.
To make it more complicated and more divisive than that seems enigmatic and self-defeating (and, sometimes, undignified).
Are you a humanist?
That's the somewhat tongue-in-cheek title of a chapter in my first manuscript-in-progress, addressing the definition and history of the word "hedonism". The chapter looks at the surprisingly benign moral philosophy of the pre-Christian-era Greek Philosopher named Epicurus, who came to be known as "the father of hedonism".
From the beginning the ideas of Epicurus seemed to be misunderstood, particularly by the defenders of belief in the gods in his own day---and then, eventually, by the more passionate defenders of the centuries-later emergent religion of Christianity. It would be Christian preachers, theologians and apologists who were ultimately responsible for linking their own understanding of "hedonism" with the idea of a philosophy of unrestrained, selfish and immoral pursuit of sensual pleasures----ideas which are actually antithetical to the moderate and sensible views and attitudes of Epicurus himself in regards to the enjoyment of things like food, drink and sex.
I won't launch into all the aspects of the discussion of hedonism as addressed in my manuscript, but i will attempt here to give a commonsense humanist view of the pursuit of pleasure.
First, it's not epitomized by my generation's raucous libertarian and sensual battle cry "Sex, Drugs and Rock n' Roll!". Nor is it a "greed is good", "the one with my most toys wins"....and "nobody tells me how to live my life" focus on the wholly materialistic, irresponsible pursuit of wealth and the over-the-top sensual excesses it can buy. The "father of hedonism" actually spoke disparagingly about both of those kinds of lifestyles, and affirmed that the pursuit of pleasure that he advocated was primarily marked by, of all things, "Prudence"! (Sounds a lot more like "moderation in all things" than "sex, drugs and rock n' roll", doesn't it?)
For me, as an ethical humanist, believing in the commonsense pursuit of pleasure (akin to our right to "the pursuit of happiness" as expressed in the Declaration of Independence) means that we can learn to draw happiness on a daily basis from wisely and prudently appreciating and enjoying the simple and sensual pleasures of human existence, without allowing obsessions with any of those pleasures to have debilitating effects on our ability to pursue the kinds of careers, relationships, hobbies and humane and charitable causes through which human beings have historically and nearly universally created the most satisfying meaning to their lives. Yes, a commonsense, humanist pursuit of pleasure can include the unabashed enjoyment of good things to eat and drink; the appreciation of beauty in nature and art; aspects of health and physical exertion/exercise; good music of our own taste; laughter; sex with the adult partner of our choice; the reflections of personality and humor in our relationship with animals; the aromas of a garden or a forest; the serenity of an idyllic and peaceful setting; conversation with a friend;...and a thousand other things, for billions of other people.
The familiar ethical mantra of "moderation in all things" is NOT historically or primarily a religious, guilt-driven mandate to behave yourself morally or to deny yourself "hedonist" pleasures----to prevent a god or gods from being displeased. Rather, since the days of Epicurus and Confucius 500-some-odd-years before the Christian era, it could be said to represent a reasoned and earnest call to physical and psycho-emotional health AND happiness, within a life filled with both pleasure AND meaningful (ethical) purpose. A humanist philosophy of life can be considered to contain exhortations to both exuberantly enjoying the pursuit of simple pleasures, and "prudently" cultivating and protecting our resources of time, health, money, possessions, energy and skills for the ethical and compassionate promotion of the welfare and happiness of those around us, or around the world.
This view of ethical humanism can give transcendent meaning to our simple pleasures, as well as to the rest of our lives and work.
If that makes me a "hedonist"....I'll wear the label proudly!
(But, please....please don't associate me with those "Hedonist" sex-hook-up cruises that are advertised whenever you do an Internet search of the word....!?!)
I skipped "church" this weekend...
...as I have every weekend for the past 17 years or so.
The (supposedly) universal Humanist "mission statement" sub-titled "Humanism and its Aspirations" (carrying the unfortunately ominous title "Humanist Manifesto III"), among other profound sentiments, does in one sentence correctly state the obvious: "Humans are social by nature and find meaning in relationships".
Even during my most devoutly faith-filled, church-going years, any degree of satisfaction or real joy that i got out of sunday morning admittedly and more often had less to do with anything that went on in the ":sanctuary"---as in singing hymns or in en masse recitation of creeds or in listening to sermons-----and more to do with the encounters with those weekly acquaintances and closer friends as we mingled and gathered in the hallways and parking lot before and after the "services". Despite the inevitably dysfunctional nature of many of those relationships---a dysfunction i think caused mainly by the enigmatically illogical and even cruel ideas inherent to much of Christian dogma and practice---it was in the consistency of meeting with fellow human beings, by unspoken "appointment", many whom we might not otherwise have encountered in our lives, that gave the sunday mornings of my youth and early adulthood their redeeming value of "a sense of community"....of fulfilling the very genuine, intrinsic need we all have to gather regularly with like-minded people. It's social value obviously was not primarily cultivated while everyone was sitting in church pews, facing the front of the chapel, and assuming their most respectful and "devout" demeanor during the (wierd) precedings usually going on.
"Fellowship"... a great word almost completely ruined for many people by its connotations with church services....can be a profound expression of what we all innately long for---even those of us who no longer look for those relationships and encounters on sunday mornings at churches.
Unfortunately, i'm not sure that most philosophically-oriented groups and organizations have been particularly effective at (re-) creating that same sense of fellowship or "community" among their members. The dearth of "places to go" on a weekly basis to fulfill our social needs---particularly our desire to spend time with like-minded, philosophical "compadres"---can be considered something of a shortcoming of many (so-called) "secularist" groups. Some people find that kind of feeling of comraderie in the often equally dysfunctional, alcohol-driven community of "drinkers" at their local bars. Some secularists settle for the otherwise less-than-ideal, more "church"-like settings and "services" of a Unitarian Universalist community. Some try to create the kind of social fellowship they inherently need among their immediate neighbors, or among their relatives,....though it somehow seems to be a rarity when either of those venues actually involve the meeting of philosophically like-minded people. The same can be said to be true of the practice of "hanging out with fellow workers". Finding a true experience of meaningful "fellowship" in those settings can be a hit-and-miss proposition.
"Humans are social by nature and find meaning in relationships"
I think humanists, among all philosophical groups, ought to, by definition, be better at creating meetings and venues for cultivating that sense of community among their members than many of them currently are. I'm convinced that at least part of the answer involves the creating of perhaps smaller, bur definitely much more LOCALIZED groups. In my Mind, the churches have the supreme advantage of being located on multiple street corners, in every neighborhood of every town and suburb. To me, that's how you create the desire for weekly meetings, by facilitating the genuine sense of freindships and comraderie.
